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4 Magazines Cover Photos by Margo

4 Magazines Cover Photos by our talented Photographer, Margo!

Wow! Our Margo Ross Sears was awarded the honor of FOUR of her photographs gracing the front covers of 4 wedding magazines! See them below. 

Are you interested in seeing sample photos and her UPFRONT, reasonable fees? Click Here.

Want to know more about Margo, her personality, and her photography background?  Read More.
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24 Excellence Awards

We’ve Earned 24 Excellence Awards since 2013

One is Knot’s “Hall of Fame” award for consecutive years earning them – we are consistent!




our latest 12 awards badges from The Knot for Best of Weddings, earned from 5-start clients' reviews

(Did you notice that The Knot has changed their awards logo 6 times since 2013?)


11 "Couples Choice" awards from The Wedding Wire for several 5-stars reviews by past clients.

(Wedding Wire has changed theirs 3 times)

Want to know what people wrote about us?  What they REALLY think about how well we served their needs? It is easy!

Click on our badges above to read 230+, glowing, five-stars Reviews from our past clients on The Knot and Wedding Wire.
Plus, Zola gave us another one for a total of 24 awards in 2024! 

 Or, see a few handwritten thank-you notes below that a few couples sent us:

thank you note from client that led to us earning awards
Thank you note from client praising our great work for them, later earning us more awards.


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Unique Shell Horn Herald

Our Signature Shell Horn Herald

Our very cool Shell Horn Herald!

Our signature Triton Shell Horn Blowing by our Officiant or Minister is included optionally: 

  • An ancient tradition, classy, coastal, fun, elegant and SUBLIME – gorgeous and mellow sounding!
  • This shell horn is also used in symphonies and orchestras for its lovely low, strong, tone

Revs. David and Margo use the Triton shell horn instead of a Caribbean conch at your ceremony. The Triton is much prettier in photos, has a more musical tone and sounds smoother too.  This horn is more reliable than a conch to make an impressive sound in all weather conditions too.

Just like church bells and trumpet fanfare played at indoor weddings, the shell horn heralds the Beginning of a new Marriage and calls in blessings and good fortune for the happy couple.

When blown properly, the Triton shell produces a low,  gentle sound that can carry for miles across land and sea!

The Hawaiian ceremonial practice of blowing the Triton shell dates back to ancient times and continues to be used in present-day events such as symphonies, orchestras, graduations and weddings. In Polynesia, this distinctive resonance from the horn once heralded the arrival of the the Chief or Royalty, the beginning of the peaceful Makahiki season (Hawai’ian New Year), or other noteworthy events.

Today, it is often heard at weddings, graduations, or other special celebrations in ANY country with a seashore coast:  the Caribbean, the USA, Celtic/Irish/Scottish islands, and on African and Asian shores too.

The sound it makes? Seashells were used as ship horns before the inventions of metal and electricity, thus the low, deep vibrating sound reminds most people of a foghorn on a boat. Please listen to video linked above to hear it briefly.It is

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Unique Sand Ceremonies & Bottle

Unique Sand Ceremony & Bottle

Our Signature Sand Ceremony & Glass Heart Bottle ~

Our unique and lovely sand ceremonies are included free in every ceremony which our Officiant/Minister performs. It’s easy, fun, meaningful and very pretty!

During our unique sand ceremonies, as your Officiant guides you through it:

  • each of your scoop up some beach sand from beneath your own feet, right where you stand for your ceremony, then
  • place that natural sand ceremonially in a big yellow seashell
  • then together you pour it into a sturdy, pretty, keepsake glass bottle which is heart-shaped (we provide bottle or use yours)
  • last, we say a short lid/cork-closing blessing (or non-religious closuree) to ‘seal’ it all 
  • See below pictures 
  • The bottle is 4.5 inches tall, 3 inches wide, and 2.5 inches thick 
  • You may include guests, kids, family at no extra charge, or the two of you only.

Afterward, couple keeps that lovely heart-shaped bottle of loved sand, as our gift, no charge of course. Take it for engraving later or as-is. At your home, perhaps you might set it on a special shelf or nook in your home as a truly  meaningful keepsake.

  • Note, just in case:  IF your beach sand is damp (its the beach, it might be…) during ceremony, when you are home again, open and leave the top off bottle for several days to dry out more thoroughly. You want it very dry.
  • We also offer an ‘off-beach’ version which is equally fun, cool & lovely! We bring a cute pail of local beach sand and same bottle to the ceremony and add a few words telling everyone what sand in the pail, too. 
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Wooden Flute Music by David

LIVE, WOODEN FLUTE MUSIC

Wooden Flute Serenade by David: 

Rev. David Sears has been playing wind imstruments a long time. Now he plays them for YOU. 

David played the French horn and a baritone horn in high school. Later in life, he took up this special flute under the instruction of Shaman Nella Silverspear, a popular flute maker and recording artist who has since peacefully passed away in 2022. She also showed him how to make wooden flutes from scratch. 

Now, David plays a variety of Native American-style Wooden Flutes, and usually brings 2 with him to your beach wedding when you order a Wooden Flute Serenade service from us at Beachpeople Weddings. 

FAQ: When will he play flute at your ceremony?
Answer: Anytime! His suggestions of times include any or all of these:

  • during the bride or groom entrance (or both) 
  • attendants entrances
  • Parents/Family entrances
  • Recessionals
  • popular is afterward for a First Dance on the beach (see sample video above)
  • during any other milestones before or after your wedding

David is flexible and answers questions to coordinate with you, during our routine planning phone appointment that happens usually 1 month prior to your ceremony.  Enjoy!  Aho! Blessings!

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Enhancements and Artwork to Photos

Enhancements of Photos

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~ Enhancements, Touch-Ups and Artwork

Packages with “enhanced” or “enhancements” wording get the edits, touch-ups and visual enhancements needed for outdoor photography (which inherently has big challenges with unpredictable light changes, oblivious strangers in background, and no control of objects in the environment). See list of the possible changes, below.

FYI: Margo chooses which images to alter, but she prefers to keep your faces natural looking as possible. Some artsy creativity is also very valuable too! Learn about Margo’s background. If your 

Enhancements May Include (and sample pics below):
  1. Remove distracting strangers, chairs, poles, trash cans, bags, shoes, etc.
  2. Boost sky colors & streaks to appear more sunrise or sunset-y colorful
  3. Add lens flare – overlay a pale colorful ray of sun spots, looks romantic, soft, mystical
  4. Teeth whitening and/or replace missing teeth (my specialty, so you can genuinely SMILE!)
  5. Remove bruises, cuts, scars, pimples, some age spots and sometimes bra straps
  6. Make 1-3 select-color images: combine black-n-white and color into 1 image (i.e. flowers in color, all else is grayscale)
  7. Soften wrinkles or reduce a double chin 
  8. Lighten harsh shadows on important faces
  9. Remove some flyaway hair strands, when possible
  10. Level the horizon line on ocean
  11. Make 2-4 dramatic Sepia (brownish) or Black-n-White copies
  12. Make 1-2 dramatic, colorful “oil painting” copies of abstract photos (ones without faces) 
  13. Overlay vignettes (very subtle “haze” around image borders–creates focus)
  14. Add subtle face ‘makeup’ to fix faded lipstick, sweated-off eyebrows, uneven outdoors light/shadows

Below, click gray dots under the pics to see next ones…

Color-Isolation: Both Black-n-White + Color.

Lens Flare spots, Oil Painting, Crystal Ball.

Face, Add Make-up lightly, Remove Blemishes, Whiten Teeth (some pics are “Before & Afters”)

Vignette Around Edges: Soft, white or gray edges.

Sepia copies (Brown-n-White)

Black-n-White copies.

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Winter Special -$50 off

Winter Dates Discount -$50

wedmates in winter with fur stole on bride
WINTER DATES are Perfect for a Private Wedding or Family Photos ~

We minus $50 from the Grand Total for EVERYONE for winter / autumn / early spring dates between November 1 and March 31!

What’s it like on the coast in those months?  Warmer than you may remember–the global warming shift in climate is observable here:  for example, its Oct 17 today and the high temperature was 83 degrees! These wintertime beaches are clear, sunny, calm, and still very hauntingly beautiful then… and VERY deserted and lovely. Dec-Feb are the coolest, around 30-55 degrees. PLUS, you can wear a wider variety of clothes and colors then, making for VERY beautiful photos that are unique!

BRIDES:  are you wearing a shoulder-less dress in winter?  When you hire Margo for photos, you may borrow our warm, all-white, Faux Fur shoulder Wrap with white satin liner! Pretty!  Elegant, warm, and coordinates with all outfits. Pics below and above.  Washed and dried carefully between every use, too. 

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Our warm, elegant loaner faux-Fur Shoulder Wrap for our Winter Photography Clients
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Professional Officiant or Friend?

Online-Ordained Friend or Professional Officiant / Minister?

Blunt Warning:  in NC, there are legal risks to using an online or mailorder ordained Clergy who is NOT authorized by their church. The risk is your marriage being invalidated by an NC judge IF someone tries to end a marriage quickly by reporting your officiant as mailorder or online ordained, therefore ALL other marriages by that clergy are invalidated too. 

But couples risk that to have familiar comfort during a uniquely stressful event. So CAN you still have a warm, comfortable (and legal) ceremony with a hired professional? Oh yes! This article will address that point in a few minutes, read on. 

  • First, do you know what legally authorizes a person to officiate in NC or SC? 
  • Do you know what goes into public speaking, designing a ceremony and wording, or a rehearsal? IF your friend is a newbie at this its even tougher. To reframe this:  would you hire a caterer who has never cooked before? Would you want your wedding to be their first time trying?
  • Moreover, this lack puts your loved one in a high-pressure, complex, and legal position of VERY BIG responsibility and consequences if they fail … with only ONE shot at it. 
  • And you two won’t get this special moment back, either. This is a one-off situation. 

Seven main reasons to interview and hire a seasoned, qualified, professional Officiant/Minister:

  1. NC court judges use a legal Precedent (set by case of Lynch vs. NC, 1980) which allow NC judges to invalidate any online or mailorder clergy ordination at any time… even years later!  If your friend’s ordination is judged invalid, then your marriage is invalid. This causes you, your business, your property, your children and grandchildren very SERIOUS legal problems.   
  2. In all 50 states, the location state of the ceremony has jurisdiction over the wedding, not your home state. In NC, only a judge or a church-authorized clergy is allowed to officiate a legal wedding.
  3. “Ordained” does NOT mean “legally authorized”. Many clergy don’t know this either: some clergy are NOT allowed to officiate weddings! Couples need to contact the leadership of that person’s church with three questions:
    1. Was she or he ordained in-person or no?
    2. Is that ordination current or expired?
    3. Is she or he authorized by that church to solemnize your marriage or no?
  4. What if your loved one says they are already a Clergy, are you uncomfortable with checking their legal credentials with other people? Most casual clergy don’t realize they aren’t authorized–like everyone else, they just assume and, finding out can be embarrassing and awkward.
  5. Also, are you two willing to feel vulnerable and weep in front of this person? Do you want to see him in 90% of your ceremony photos? Are you willing to risk your wedding, your happiness, you’re your friendship if you don’t agree on important wording? And IF they tank at your wedding and ruin it, are you willing to risk your friendship, or forgive the loss of your ONE shot at your dream wedding?  
  6. Officiating well also requires dozens of special personal skills. Which skills are you willing to forfeit when an amateur overlooks them?
    1. knows the minimum legal requirements
    2. knows ceremony and rehearsal logistics,
    3. is reliable, on time consistently,
    4. enjoys public speaking, pleasant voice, good eye-contact, voice projection without yelling,
    5. patient, calm and flexible during sudden changes or surprises,
    6. controls stress habits (twitching, scratching, smoking, drinking, winking, waving hands around),
    7. wears appropriate attire, hairdo, neat and clean,
    8. be 100% sober and respectful to you,
    9. speech writing skills:  understands co-writing vows to YOUR taste not his. 
  7. Why set up someone you love (and yourself) for disastrous failure? The consequences are high with legal issues. Why not let them enjoy being an honored guest instead? Or a Poem Reader, MOH or Best Man, Toastmaster or Dinner Blessing, or all of those? 

There are better, safer Clergy options that feel familiar and comfortable, too. A seasoned, trained, authorized Officiant knows what works, what won’t, and will let YOU choose.  Moreover, if you don’t want a ‘stranger’ officiating, or you want more control over the vows, you can have that easily:

  • Ask your other wedding vendors for warm, personable reputable recommendations.
  • Ask married family and friends if they liked their Officiant, specifically why or why not? 
  • Search reputable wedding websites with vendor listings. This can be VERY FUN! Read the reviews of the 4 and 5-star ones. In the photos do they look, read and “feel” good to you? 

Your ceremony is what your wedding day is all about. We recommend you:

  • Contact 3 of the best. Ask for a phone interview or meet you for coffee.
  • Trust your instincts: how flexible is she?  Is he enthusiastic? Notice reactions to your wishes and ideas.
  • Speak openly about what you do and don’t want, listen to their questions. Don’t worry if a clergyperson doesn’t share your beliefs … you won’t hire that one. (say “Thank you for your time, but we are going in another direction.”)
  • Do you like how she or he talks? How he looks (he’ll be in half the photos)?  Does that person seem to like you?
  • When you find 1 or 2 favorites, ask for the contact info to the leaders of their churches to confirm their ordination and authorization. If they don’t comply, then smile, say that “thank you… another direction.” speech. Regardless of charm, if they aren’t authorized, you risk your marriage not being legal.

Find a warm, friendly, experienced Officiant who is on your wavelength and their church leaders confirm, and he or she is HAPPY for you. You deserve that!

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Friend or Pro Photographer?

Friend or Pro Shooter?

CONSIDER THIS:  The event itself lasts just 1 day (or less), but GREAT photos will bring back your Happy Memories all your life, and for 7 more generations of loved ones, AND be a record for another 700+ years too!
Need to fit a budget? Put your hard-earned money where YOU get the most from it -- compromise elsewhere.

For gorgeous once-in-your-lifetime photos, you will choose either a friend / loved one, or a recommended professional photographer?  There are pros and cons to each one:

PROs for FRIEND (the upside):

  • Free or cheap
  • Might offer unlimited time shooting
  • Familiar face and energy
  • May get insider pics from knowing the group’s politics
  • If you like to do it, you probably can micro-manage a friend shooting
  • Friend may party or drink with you.

CONs – FRIEND (the downside):

  • Friend may party or drink while working – drunk people with only 1 hand free, don’t get good photos
  • May expect compensation elsewhere (i.e. big tip, free drinks, favors, borrow your car or condo)
  • Friend may not handle real challenges to your liking
  • May NEED micro-managing (if inexperienced)
  • May resist micro-managing, argue, sulk or feel insulted and stop shooting
  • Expectations are casual, so he may miss good shots which are important to you
  • Chatting, distracted by other guests, and miss important shots
  • If you speak up about it, you risk hurt feelings, arguing, embarrassment
  • Friend can just refuse your suggestions
  • Friend can take embarrassing pics or gossip about private things seen / heard
  • If friend gets sick, too drunk/high, injured, has travel problems–then a good replacement is hard to find at last minute.
  • Friend might not handle challenges (bad weather, rain, poor lighting, rude guests, dead batteries, hairdo and make-up failures, emotional meltdowns)
  • Friend may not know how to help people relax—gets awkward, adds to your stress, wastes time
  • Friend may not know how to pose people to look their best
  • You risk your photos  being poor quality.
  • If you don’t like the photos, you risk hurt feelings & no solutions
  • Thus, you risk having no great wedding photos
  • Friend may not have truly high-tech equipment or authentic editing skills
  • If someone breaks his camera or lights, or gets injured (tripping/falling), or he damages property (drops your wedding rings, breaks a chair he stood upon), YOU pay for the camera, the doctor, and the lost property!
  • Because this was a free/cheap project for a pal (you), your wedding pics may get low priority to finish editing & deliver.

CON – PROFESSIONAL (the downside):

  • You pay a set, pre-determined fee 
  • She may not feel like a familiar face at first
  • Shooter may not accept being micro-managed
  • Professional will not party/drink with you
  • Pro may not handle challenges to your liking (good recommendations fix this one)

PRO – PROFESSIONAL (the upside):

  • Professional shooter will not party on the job; stays sober and focused
  • If you don’t like something, you can ask for a change without argument or hurt feelings
  • Professional knows how to pose people to look their best
  • Professional always helps people to relax, be comfortable and genuine for photos
  • No embarrassing shots or gossiping; all stays confidential
  • You choose when the shooting starts and stops
  • Photographer is your employee to direct
  • If you don’t want to micro-manage on your wedding day, you don’t have to
  • Pro always takes your posing suggestions
  • If she is sick, injured or unable to work, she sends a good, professional, reliable replacement shooter
  • Professional can get clever shots from being unrestricted by your group’s politics
  • Uses professional high-tech equipment and editing tools and experienced skills
  • A recommended and experienced Professional handles challenges well (i.e. drunk or rude guests or meltdowns, weather, dead batteries, hairdo and make-up failures, etc.)
  • Professional will definitely get you great photos
  • If you don’t like the results, a professional can re-edit differently, or offer compensation or partial refund–without hurt feelings (good recommendations & experience avoid this)
  • Professional has insurance coverage if someone damages her equipment, or any property, or a guest gets injured (grandpa falls and breaks a hip trying to help move a prop, or sister trips over a camera bag), you don’t pay for those expensive, surprise bills!
  • Professional shooter delivers your photos on time because you’re a paying customer.
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Guest List Managing Advice

Guest List Making Advice

Guest list shown on notebook paper and pen
Struggling with managing a list of guests? 
Got relatives scattered? 
Been travelling a lot and lost touch with friends?
Or parents have guests they want included?
Not sure who to invite?
Try this simple, logical, useful flowchart to help decide which guest to invite to your beach wedding when you just are not sure.
You’re welcome! 
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Still Overwhelmed?! Ideas...

  • Try hiring a Wedding Planner or Coordinator we recommend on our Suggested Vendors page. There are also Invitation services online on The Knot and Wedding Wire websites.
  • Ask your friends, coworkers or colleagues who married to recommend an Invitation Service.  Sometimes those companies can offer solutions to invitation dilemmas and awkward decisions. 
  • Another popular solution is to ELOPE alone for a happy, warm, EASY private beach wedding. Hire a videographer (we recommend Bob Collins at www.bobvox.com). Later on, you throw a big reception party dinner & cake back home complete with a large viewing screen for the video! 
  • Invite everyone who wants to view your wedding video and celebrate!  For extra party time fun, you can:
    • ‘Re-enact’ the ceremony with a fun-natured loved one Officiating
    • Get friends/family to stand up as Best Man, Best Dog, best Woman, Flower Boy, etc. 
    • Wear your wedding dress and suit again for that party! 
    • Carry a small bouquet and THROW IT.  Or throw a bridal scarf or hat!
    • Have toasts and songs from Guests, a cake Cutting and Feeding, have your First Dance, Daddy/Daughter or Mommy/Son dances, do the Shoe Game, Dollars Dance, Broom Jump, a Photo Booth, sign a Quilt or Ketubbah, do karaoke, etc.   
    • Have fun with getting  people involved in the FUN!