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Chairs and Arbors Advice

Chairs and Arbors Advice

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Useful Chairs/Benches and Arbor Advice ~

Decor:  we offer our unique, signature beach sand and seashell Heart Art as decoration, but NO seating or arbors / arches BECAUSE among our 2,000+ past couples decide against it as follows: 

  1. 90% don’t get chairs (ceremony is 10 minutes) and
  2. 95% don’t use an arbor/arch after they read why in this article, BUT…
  3. If you REALLY want or need them, we recommend these reliable rental companies (click here) but first read on… 
  4. We DO decorate the wedding site around your feet in our gorgeous, handmade, unique Sand Groomed Heart & Shells (click here to see more pics) or see some pic below.
  5. MORE INSIGHTS:
    • ceremony & arbors last only 5-15 minutes for this event.
    • Lightweight, thin arbors are a risky wind hazard of falling or striking someone especially with drapes on it, and 
    • Renting heavy bulky, fancy ones are pretty but cost $200-$800 or more!
    • HOWEVER, the lovely oceanscape / soft beach backdrop alone are very unique and profoundly pretty! 
    • Also, most Guests do not sit down even with chairs available … over 2,000 weddings’ experience–its the truth.  

packages sand art heart with shells

 

CHAIRS & BENCHES ADVICE:

Wedding ceremony lasts about 10 mins + guests assembling (5-15 mins) + photos session afterward (up to 60 mins):

  • BUT if any guests are elderly, handicapped, pregnant, then seats/chairs are a GOOD IDEA!
  • If you have fewer than 30 guests and no elderly or handicapped, then consider no chairs.  Let them stand, and move comfortably, in a half-round formation around the couple instead (click here to see that in our Facebook album photos).
  • Or consider bringing out a few patio or folding chairs for the “first row” of special guests (parents, g-parents, elders, handicapped), and invite fit guests to stand around them.
  • If you rent chairs/seats or an arbor, we recommend renting from vendors we trust (avoid rusty, greasy, dirty, broken chairs, seriously) – click this link to see a list of Rental websites here: Suggested Vendors webpage
  • When asking Rentals for quotes, be sure to ask for delivery fee and setup/breakdown fee…those are 2 additional, and often separate, fees besides the chairs or arbor.

ARBOR ADVICE:

  • With officiating, we include an artful marking on the sand for your ceremony site with our unique sand grooming and seashells heart at your feet, (see pics below) and our cast iron hook-and-shell horn.
  • But, some people like the extra color and framing of an arbor in their photos… so it’s personal taste.
  • FYI: arbors can be white PVC (shiny plastic), painted metal, bamboo or other woods. They can be 4 or 2 posts, in various shapes. People sometimes add flowers or drapes or similar things. 
  • Arbors with 4 posts, chunkier and professionally well-anchored with metal stakes 2 feet deep, are safer and more lovely.  
  • The thin, light, department store arbors are cheaper AND VERY LIKELY to fall over in the beach wind with soft sand beach (especially with fabric draped on them–acts like a boat sail!). 
  • FYI:  about 60% of the “homemade” arbors we’ve seen don’t work…hard to transport, delicate, breakable, not anchorable, not wind resistant, and fall right over during setup! Pretty much high-maintenance and stressful for the couple. 
  • Honestly, if you really WANT an arbor, shop around and rent a sturdy one from trusted pros on our other page:  beachpeopleweddings.com/suggested-vendors.

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9 More Cool Tips

9 Tips for a Happy Wedding!

Beach and outdoor weddings can be among the most beautiful and magical, but good planning is essential! Here is our EXTRA advice from years of experience:
  1. No email reply from us in 12 hours?
    Check your junkmail or spam filter for our reply message… its usually in there. Put our address in your address book or Safe List to avoid future issue: kiss@beachpeopleweddings.com
  2. Flower petals on the beach
    Fake petals are unlawful to drop on sand (it is littering). Please-Please-Please, only use REAL flower petals. Protect innocent wildlife…silk and artificial petals are plastic pollution on the beach. They kill sea turtles and birds that eat them (they actually do – a lot). Real flower petals are fine.
  3. Elderly and handicapped guests
    Some elderly or mobility issues guests struggle with the high heat, long boardwalks, stairs, and unstable shifting sand. Consider videotaping the ceremony for them, or ask us for advice on easier locations nearby. Want affordable video? bobvox.com.
  4. Dress to be yourself
    Consider colorful, beachy dresses and shirts and light pants/shorts. You may even wish to have bare feet in the soft sand (maybe toe and ankle bling instead!). But ladies, if you are heart-set on that gorgeous wedding gown and special shoes, please go for it! Be yourself! The more color you bring to a bleached white & beige beach photograph, the better. Color celebrates! Think colorful ribbons, flowers, clothes, etc.
  5. Rings Safety on Sand
    Consider putting rings in a single ring box or small drawstring bag so they are protected and can be found if they are dropped. There is potential for this, especially if a nervous or very young ringbearer is carrying them.
  6. Traffic & Travel Time
    Please know exactly where your ceremony is with a trial run beforehand. On the day of the ceremony, make plenty of time to get there. Seriously, vacation traffic jams easily delay you for more than an hour! No kidding! So please leave extra time to drive to your wedding. Tell your guests too.
  7. Child Care Tips
    Designate a childcare person instead of you. You should enjoy your own ceremony with your new spouse. Appoint a trusted adult for potty, snacks, hugs, kisses, distraction, safety, etc. Be sure kids are not hungry, get LOTS of nurturing attention FROM YOU beforehand, and get good sleep!
  8. Difficult Guests?
    Don’t try to own the issues of difficult family and guests during this special time. You don’t need to mediate fights, or compromise for them, or do anything but ENJOY YOUR wedding and YOUR day! Guests need to politely show respect for you and your wedding and be accommodating.
  9. When you leave home or hotel for your ceremony–bring a tote bag with your marriage license, money owed vendors, beach permit (if applies), flowers, mirror, lipstick, comb, hairspray, tissues, sunglasses, sunscreen, touchup makeup, decor, gifts, and photo props.